Sorry,I have tried to enter posts on your blogs Tony Lisa and Carole but something not right somewhere so will try to sort it soon.So sorry things are not good tont ,have sent you a PM.Carole,dont overdo things,you have been through a tremendous ordeal,as if I need to remind you !!!.Little steps.
Lisa,I remember when Debbie was about 6 (23 years ago)she was invited to a party and after 10 mins of"I sit by her in singing" and "shes got long hair" and various other descriptions I was non the wiser .Then she said"shes got a brown face",the last thing she thought of !!!so it is lovely as you say that they dont make an issue of things.
Take care all